July 18, 2008 at 9:43 am (A day in the life)
Tags: fun, surf, sand, sun, rain, Washington, North Carolina, river, lake, Virginia Beach

I’m SO ready for this weekend to hurry up and get here, and for me, that will happen in T minus 88 minutes. The countdown has begun and my toes are itching for some surf, sun and sand. I haven’t hit the water since I’ve been in this state, and I have to say that, IT’s TIME!
I’m from Western Washington State, home of the ocean in the sky. It rains there 9 months out of the year, we live right next to the water, meaning the Puget Sound, and a hop, skip and a jump from the good ole Pacific Ocean. Can’t go wrong, water everywhere and greenery abounds….. NC is great, I like it, the thunder/lightning storms are cool, but we’re going through an extended DROUGHT - not my forte. I’m not used to a lack of water or water restrictions. That’s just abnormal in my world. I’m not used to driving an hour to the “lake” which is an accumulation of a river, or 3 to 4 hours to the “beach” which is not called the ocean on this part of the country…lol. It’s okay - cultural differences, I get it.
These last few weeks have been crazy hectic at work, my good bud got to go surf and sand it up and I felt the pangs of jealousy eating out my insides. I’m so incredibly ready for this - physically and mentally. Let’s go already. Only 79 more minutes at work and then the movement begins. Drive to the house, grab the kid and clothes, meet up with co-vacationers, and make the drive. That will be the worst of it, but we will survive. Hotel has been reserved and fun is waiting to be had. Ahhhhh, happy Friday to you all - gotta bust arse some more around these parts. Ciao!
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July 14, 2008 at 11:44 am (A day in the life)
Tags: sex, fun, toys, positions, google

Apparently, lots of people search the web for items that contain the word “Sex” - either google, yahoo, msn, however you search….Even wordpress blogs - people want to know about sex. Are they looking for a how-to blog? Or do they want to know about your deepest, darkest desires and abnormalities?
I’d like to know about the weirdness. For some reason I am intrigued by people’s strange little quirks. What is it you like to do that’s all kinds of freaky-deaky and you wouldn’t tell a soul about? Funny enough, you can create a false name and comment here if you’d like. I think that’s the reason this word is so often searched - I’m not the only person in the world who likes to see other peoples’ kink. I’ll be honest about it - I don’t mind checking out some horribly scripted movies that involve a lot of skin from time to time. I don’t use that as a means to pass my time in general, but it does hold a certain interest for me. Yes, it objectifies women and yes, it plays into the culture of women having no power - I get that. I’m really not a feminist though, and I enjoy a good time just as much as the next girl. Not the Girls Gone Wild girls - not so much, but the average, American girl who likes to get raunchy from time to time - that kind of good time…hehehe.
If you believe that’s a bad thing, I’m sorry you’re not in touch with your inner raunch, and I honestly hope you begin to accept your body and other bodies as a part of nature and that you learn to enjoy it as much as possible before it’s either burnt into oblivion or rotting in a deep hole with bugs feasting on its every nutrient. Seriously. Have some fun.
Heck, if you’re married, that’s even better - have your partner take part in the fun. Get some toys or some fluid-like substance to enhance the fun times. Buy some books. Buy some DVDs. Consult a professional. Okay - not sure I’d do that one, but learning your husband’s/wife’s body is just as important in a marriage as learning their mind. Plus it’s just good exercise. You can sweat without leaving the comfort of your own bed. Gotta love that. Try out a few different positions. Missionary gets old, and that whole roll over and jump on top thing gets tired too - reverse it and see what happens, throw the ol’ doggy into the mix… whatever you do - have some fun, don’t take it too seriously, and don’t be afraid to laugh (as long as you’re not being personal).
That being said, google away - sex, sex, sex…. be careful though - those darn pop ups can be a pain…..
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July 3, 2008 at 1:00 pm (A day in the life, Friends, Uncategorized)
Tags: 4th of July, camping, cook out, Family, fireworks, fishing, fun

As I sit here contemplating my pasta with little else mixed in, I’m checking the compartments in my mind for possible activities for this holiday weekend. I could go fishing, which is my new funnest past time - only when I’m actually catching. Notice it’s not called “catching”, it’s called fishing - hmmmm…. I could hit up the batting cages and work on my extremely weak swing since I haven’t swung a bat more than 3 times in a month and a half. I could be a studious learner and get a jump on my reading for the summer course I’m enrolled in, but that would involve actually purchasing my books. I could sit around the house and feel sorry for myself and the fact that I don’t earn enough money to thoroughly enjoy life. I could harrass my friends and relatives on cell phones and computers all weekend long, but I’m truly not THAT desperate for entertainment. Hmmmm - any ideas?
I normally really, really enjoy the 4th of July and the weekend that is generally attached to it. For some reason this coming weekend feels almost anticlimactic. What the heck? It may be due to the unfathomable amount of work I’ve been saddled with this week and my sheer need for some quiet and solitude, or just plain old good snuggle time. It may be the lack of softball in my life lately. That would be strictly due to my attitude and random infections that have been plaguing my life. UGH.
This is the time for fun cook outs, and fireworks, camping and bonfires, drunken silliness and jokes. Why am I not feeling up to it? It’s frustrating. I’m not depressed and I’m certainly not lonely. It could be related to this being my 1st Fourth in Charlotte and my lack of knowledge pertaining to the city and its traditions. Back home, I could hit up any number of friends’ houses or the waterfront to check out the city fireworks. I could go to the reservation and purchase ridiculous amounts of explosive devices that make all kinds of fun colors and loud noises, but I have no clue how things work around here. Asking the natives doesn’t allow for a lot of options only because the standard response is:”there’s lots to do”…… okay??????????? so exactly what is “lots”?
I know we’ll find something fun to do - I’m a girl that knows how to enjoy herself - I’d just like to have a plan of some sort or another. Heck, if I could have multiple fun things planned, that would be even better.
Well, enjoy your 4th - don’t forget to throw the firecracker, and don’t let it blow up in your hand. That’s just messy. Also, don’t burn yourself on a lighter or other lighting device for explosives. Don’t drink and drive, and certainly, don’t go to sleep without doing a darn thing.
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